To whom it may concern,
Hello my name is Curtis and me and my fiancée have been in a relationship now for six wonderful months and we plan on getting married in Ontario next April.
I am currently a recipent of Ontario Works and am in rhe process of Ontario Disability due to a back injury that I received at work many years ago, depression because of it, and also due to having social anxiety.
We met last December on a game of all places and we instantly hit it off.
I got my first passport in January of this year and she bought me a plane ticket to go meet her and her family in March.
I was detained by the Border patrol Officers upon entry in the United Kingdom and was interiogated for nine hours about the purpose for my visit and I at first told them that I was there to visit a friend but then told them that I was actually there to visit my girlfriend at the time.
I was not able to contact any of my family members or my fiancée until these nine hours had passed. So unfortunately, I was unable to meet my fiancée on my first attempt.
She got a plane ticket dated two days later and came to visit me in Canada for three of the most wonderful weeks of our lives. She is coming for a second visit in July and is going to spend the summer with me here in Canada as she is a playgroup assistant in England and she gets her summers off.
( Sorry to ramble on here but I’m trying to describe to you our situation and hardship(s) ) She graduated University last September and has been working ever since.
We have researched quite extensively for the best way for her to be able to live with Mr in Canada after we are married next year but we are in need of assistance as we want to find our best way for her to be able to do so.
We looked into her applying as a skilled worker but the fact that she has less than a year of part time work disables her from having the minimum hours required to do so.
The fact that I’m unable to be her sponsor as I’m currently a recipient of Ontario Works is also disheartening.
We were just wondering what would our best way to go about her being able to live with me in Canada next year once we are married?
Do we have to wait for her to get the work hours in it do we wait to see if I receive Ontario Disability?
I did receive their decision today and of course it was a no which was exactly what we were expecting as by default that is how Ontario Disability works as most people will not bother with an appeal. The good thing about this is that I’m not ‘most people’ and I’m already expecting this to go all the way to the Tribunal board. Any help for us is much appreciated and we look forward to heating any advise from anyone.
On a side note: Why does the Government of Canada feel that people of ‘poor’ status not deserve the right to fall in love and live with the one person in the world that truly understands you just like everyone else?
I feel as if my rights as a human being are being violated here. Now tell me, Am I wrong to feel this way? Or is it just the way the world that we live in works? My fiancée wants to come to Canada and take care of me not only financially but in a way that I so desperately need… Emotionally.
Sincerely yours,
Curtis